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BREAKUP COACHING

Breakups can leave you feeling like you’ve lost a part of yourself, even if, on the outside, you’re still holding everything together.

You might be overthinking every conversation, checking their social media, or wondering how something that meant so much could end so suddenly. Part of you wants to move on, but, another part feels stuck.

This is a space where you don’t have to pretend you’re okay.

Breakup coaching offers supportive, one-on-one guidance to help you process what’s happened, regain emotional clarity, and slowly start feeling like yourself again. Together, we work through the patterns, thoughts, and emotional ties that are keeping you stuck - so you can begin to let go with understanding, not force.

Whether you’re navigating heartbreak, struggling to detach, or trying to rebuild your sense of self, you’ll be supported with care, honesty, and practical tools that actually help in real life.

You can choose from personalised 1:1 coaching or guided support through courses like the Emotional First Aid Series, each designed to meet you where you are.

You don’t have to have it all figured out before reaching out.
This is simply a place to start.

Talk it through with me:

You don’t have to be ready, just open to talking 🫶🏽
 

🌿 Start with a free 15-minute conversation
or, if a call feels like too much right now, you can message me instead.

Prefer to work through this in your own time?
✨ Explore my self-paced programs

Private Coaching

Private coaching to support your healing, rebuild your confidence, and guide your next steps.

Online Coaching Programs

Online workshops and masterclasses designed to support your healing, build self-trust, and guide your personal growth.

Resources

Supportive resources designed to help you heal, reflect, and reconnect with who you are beyond the relationship.

From the minute I turned on my camera, I was greeted by such a friendly and warm smile, it felt like I was meeting a friend! I was quite nervous about the session, but Vanessa really made me feel at ease and beared with me so patiently, as I took my time with my answers and expression. It felt like a safe place where I could be vulnerable and not be judged or belittled. The questions she asked me made me reflect, and gave me a perspective that I did not think of before. I feel a lot more motivated and walked away from the session with tools and strategies that I can utilise in my day to day life, to slowly but surely, heal from this heartbreak. I definitely feel like I have lot to reflect on and I feel like I can be a bit more organised with processing my emotions. Another thing I really liked about my session was how Vanessa personalised her advice and coaching for my situation perfectly - it did not feel like a scripted coaching session, it was natural and the goals she set for me were realistic and achievable - much like a personal trainer but for your mental health! Througout my session I felt heard and there were definitely things I needed to hear that were hard but Vanessa is a professional and just the coach I need. :)

Lamisa

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